Health and Wellness

Unlocking the Science of Gratitude: A Path to Greater Happiness and Peace

November 3, 2024

As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us find ourselves reflecting on what we’re thankful for. But gratitude isn’t just for the holidays – it’s a practice that, when embraced daily, can boost happiness, improve health, and even reshape the brain.

Coaching Services
Approaches
SCHEDULE PAGE
Quick Links
Get ready to go from Hot mess to limitless

When we struggle in one area, we suffer in all the rest. But— when we make changes to better ourselves and relationships in one area, all the others improve! We help you do what works.

hello,

It's time. Your life is waiting for you

Schedule

You were meant to thrive.  Now is the time to become a better you!

As Thanksgiving approaches, many of us find ourselves reflecting on what we’re thankful for. But gratitude doesn’t need to be limited to one season – science shows it has incredible power to improve mental well-being, boost happiness, and even change our brains. Whether it’s savoring a beautiful sunrise, appreciating a helping hand, or simply noticing the warmth of a cozy cup of coffee, gratitude has a lasting, transformative effect on our minds and bodies. So, let’s explore how gratitude works, why it’s such a powerful practice, and a few ways to bring it into daily life.

The Science of Gratitude: How It Impacts the Brain

When we experience gratitude, it activates the brain’s reward centers, leading to a release of “feel-good” neurotransmitters, like dopamine and serotonin. These chemicals are associated with happiness, relaxation, and a sense of satisfaction, which helps explain why people who practice gratitude regularly tend to feel happier and less stressed.

Researchers at the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley have found that gratitude can lead to long-lasting positive effects on brain function. They discovered that consistent gratitude practice enhances activity in the brain’s medial prefrontal cortex, an area responsible for understanding emotions and managing empathy. Essentially, when we practice gratitude, we are training our brain to focus more on positive experiences, making us more resilient and mentally strong over time.

In a 2015 study published in the journal Frontiers in Psychology, researchers found that individuals who kept a gratitude journal reported fewer symptoms of depression and felt more connected to others than those who didn’t practice gratitude. So, gratitude isn’t just a feel-good exercise – it’s a powerful tool that shapes our brain, emotions, and overall quality of life.

The Benefits of a Daily Gratitude Practice

Here are some of the remarkable benefits a consistent gratitude practice can offer:

  1. Enhanced Happiness and Life Satisfaction: By consistently noticing and appreciating life’s positives, we’re more likely to experience higher levels of happiness. Grateful people are often more satisfied with their lives, feel more content, and have a more positive outlook.
  2. Reduced Stress and Improved Resilience: When we focus on gratitude, we’re less likely to dwell on negative thoughts or stressors. This practice helps us navigate challenging times with greater strength and optimism.
  3. Stronger Relationships: Expressing gratitude towards others – whether it’s a friend, partner, or even a colleague – strengthens bonds and fosters a sense of connection. When we feel and show appreciation, we tend to bring out the best in others and in ourselves.
  4. Improved Physical Health: Research shows that grateful people tend to exercise more, have lower blood pressure, and get better sleep. The mental benefits of gratitude have tangible effects on physical health, helping us feel our best inside and out.

How to Start a Gratitude Practice: Simple Tips and Exercises

Incorporating gratitude into daily life doesn’t have to be complex. Here are a few easy ways to make gratitude a regular part of your routine:

1. The “Three Good Things” Practice

Each night, take a moment to write down three things that went well that day, no matter how big or small. This could be anything from a good conversation with a friend to a beautiful sunset. Reflecting on these moments helps reinforce positive experiences, training the brain to notice and appreciate the good in everyday life.

2. Keep a Gratitude Journal

Writing down things you’re grateful for has a powerful effect on your mood and outlook. Once or twice a week, jot down thoughts about things you appreciate, people who make a difference, or moments that make you smile. Keeping a gratitude journal helps turn this practice into a habit and lets you look back on all the positive things in your life.

3. Express Gratitude to Others

One of the most impactful ways to experience gratitude is to share it with others. This could be a simple “thank you” note to someone who has been supportive or a heartfelt conversation with a loved one. Expressing gratitude to others strengthens connections and brings joy to both you and the recipient.

4. Try a “Gratitude Meditation”

Find a quiet place to sit comfortably. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths. Begin by thinking of one person, place, or experience you’re grateful for, and focus on the feelings of warmth and appreciation it brings. Allow this feeling to expand as you reflect on other things you’re grateful for, savoring each one.

Embracing Gratitude Beyond Thanksgiving

Gratitude is a mindset that can bring joy and positivity to every season. When we start to notice the good things, however small, it shifts our entire perspective. Gratitude helps us live fully in the moment, letting us savor experiences, connect with others, and find beauty even in life’s challenges.

If you’re ready to take your practice to the next level, consider setting aside just a few minutes a day for gratitude – you might be surprised by how much it changes your outlook. Remember, gratitude is more than a feeling; it’s a way of life. This Thanksgiving, let’s take a moment to thank not only others but also ourselves for all we do each day.

Gratitude is one of the simplest, yet most transformative practices you can adopt. By making gratitude a part of your life, you’re not just enriching your days – you’re also building a stronger, happier, and healthier you. Give it a try, and let this Thanksgiving be the beginning of your journey to a gratitude-filled life.

Happy Thanksgiving, and here’s to a grateful heart every day of the year. 🧡

+ show Comments

- Hide Comments

add a comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

What else?

Trauma may result from a wide variety of stressors such as accidents, invasive medical procedures, sexual or physical assault, emotional abuse, neglect, war, natural disasters, loss, birth trauma, or the corrosive stressors of ongoing fear and conflict. SE facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound in the body, thus addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. This is approached by gently guiding clients to develop increasing tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotion.


SE offers a framework to assess where a person is “stuck” in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states. It provides effective skills appropriate to a variety of healing professions including mental health, medicine, physical and occupational therapies, bodywork, addiction treatment, first response, education, and others— Excerpt taken from SETI.

Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders resulting from multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics, together with over 45 years of successful clinical application. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma. Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat or as the end product of cumulative stress. Both types of stress can seriously impair a person’s ability to function with resilience and ease. Excerpt taken from SETI

An Embodied approach to healing

Trauma may result from a wide variety of stressors such as accidents, invasive medical procedures, sexual or physical assault, emotional abuse, neglect, war, natural disasters, loss, birth trauma, or the corrosive stressors of ongoing fear and conflict. SE facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound in the body, thus addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. This is approached by gently guiding clients to develop increasing tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotion.


SE offers a framework to assess where a person is “stuck” in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states. It provides effective skills appropriate to a variety of healing professions including mental health, medicine, physical and occupational therapies, bodywork, addiction treatment, first response, education, and others— Excerpt taken from SETI.

Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders resulting from multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics, together with over 45 years of successful clinical application. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma. Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat or as the end product of cumulative stress. Both types of stress can seriously impair a person’s ability to function with resilience and ease. Excerpt taken from SETI

An Embodied approach to healing

Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute. 

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP) is a complete treatment modality to heal trauma and attachment issues. SP welcomes the body as an integral source of information for processing past experiences relating to upsetting or traumatic events and developmental wounds. SP incorporates the physical and sensory experience, as well as thoughts and emotions, as part of the person’s complete experience of both the trauma itself and the process of healing. Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute.  


An Embodied approach to healing

SP seeks to restore a person’s ability to process information without being triggered by past experience. SP uses a three-phase treatment approach to gently guide the client through the therapeutic process – Safety and Stabilization, Processing, and Integration. The therapist must pay close attention to the client to ensure that they are not overwhelmed by the process while simultaneously engaging their own abilities and capacities for healing.

It is thought that SP strengthens instinctual capacities for survival and assists clients to re-instate or develop resources which were unavailable or missing at the time the trauma or wounding occurred. Once resources are developed and in place, the traumatic event can be processed with the aid of resources. SP is a well-developed approach with decades of success in the treatment of trauma and developmental wounds. — Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute. 

Excerpt taken from ACBS Association for Contextual Behavioral Science. 

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is a comprehensive multi-diagnostic, modularized behavioral intervention designed to treat individuals with severe mental disorders and out-of-control cognitive, emotional and behavioral patterns. It has been commonly viewed as a treatment for individuals meeting criteria for Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) with chronic and high-risk suicidality, substance dependence or other disorders. However, over the years, data has emerged demonstrating that DBT is also effective for a wide range of other disorders and problems, most of which are associated with difficulties regulating emotions and associated cognitive and behavioral patterns. 

radical acceptance and change

As the name implies, dialectical philosophy is a critical underpinning of DBT. Dialectics is a method of logic that identifies the contradictions (antithesis) in a person's position (thesis) and overcomes them by finding the synthesis. Additionally, in DBT a client cannot be understood in isolation from his or her environment and the transactions that occur. Rather, the therapist emphasizes the transaction between the person and their environment both in the development and maintenance of any disorders. It is also assumed that there are multiple causes as opposed to a single factor affecting the client. And, DBT uses a framework that balances the treatment strategies of acceptance and change - the central dialectical tension in DBT. Therapists work to enhance the capability (skills) of their client as well as to develop the motivation to change. Maintaining that balance between acceptance and change with clients is crucial for both keeping a client in treatment and ensuring they are making progress towards their goals of creating a life worth living. — Taken from DBT-Linehan Board of Certification. (click to learn more)

Wanna know
a little bit
about us?

We are a spunky team of gals who are therapists, moms, life coaches, and wives. We are made of sturdy compassion for hard stories, grit for the work, and exuberance for life.  

hey there!

Vanessa

Rachel

Women's Wellness Seminar

SEE PRESENtation

Presentation

We are launching our GRIT Kids program!

More

Look what's new

 Our Resources

You were made to flourish.  You were made to thrive.  Don't accept anything less than being fully you!

Home
SERVICES >
meet us
Approach

WELL COACHED LIFE

blog >

Schedule

CONTACT

© WELL Coached LIFE 2020 - 2023 

SEND US A NOTE >

GET ON THE LIST >

Client Portal >

follow along 
on with us:

You were made to flourish.  You were made to thrive.  Don't accept anything less than being fully you!

Home
SERVICES >
meet us
Approach

WELL COACHED LIFE

blog >

Schedule

CONTACT

© WELL Coached LIFE 2020 - 2023 

SEND US A NOTE >

GET ON THE LIST >

Client Portal >

follow along 
on with us:

couples

Individual

GRIT Kids

You were made to flourish.  You were made to thrive.  Don't accept anything less than being fully you!

Home
SERVICES >
meet us
Approach

WELL COACHED LIFE

blog >

Schedule

CONTACT

© WELL Coached LIFE 2020 - 2023 

SEND US A NOTE >

GET ON THE LIST >

Client Portal >

follow along 
on with us:

Vanessa

Rachel