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Embracing Change: A Thoughtful Approach to Starting the New Year with Lasting Habits

December 28, 2023

As the clock strikes midnight and the calendar turns its page, the beginning of a new year offers a canvas of opportunities for personal growth and positive transformation. Rather than hastily crafting resolutions that may fade with the passing weeks, let’s delve into the art of intentional living. In this blog post, we’ll explore the […]

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As the clock strikes midnight and the calendar turns its page, the beginning of a new year offers a canvas of opportunities for personal growth and positive transformation. Rather than hastily crafting resolutions that may fade with the passing weeks, let’s delve into the art of intentional living. In this blog post, we’ll explore the nuances of starting a new year and cultivating healthy habits that endure.

Understanding the Why:

Before diving into the how-tos of habit formation, it’s crucial to reflect on the ‘why.’ What drives your desire for change? Is it a yearning for enhanced well-being, improved relationships, or professional growth? Clarifying your motivations provides a solid foundation for the journey ahead.

Reflect on the Past:

Acknowledging the past is not about dwelling on failures but gleaning wisdom from experiences. Reflect on the highs and lows of the previous year, identifying patterns and lessons learned. What worked well, and what could use a mindful tweak? This reflection lays the groundwork for informed goal-setting.

Set Intentions, Not Resolutions:

Resolutions often carry a weight of finality, setting the stage for either success or failure. Instead, consider setting intentions—a more fluid and compassionate approach. Craft intentions that align with your values and resonate with the person you aspire to become.

Embrace Small Changes:

Rome wasn’t built in a day, and neither are enduring habits. Rather than overwhelming yourself with grand transformations, focus on small, manageable changes. These micro-shifts pave the way for sustainable progress.

Cultivate a Growth Mindset:

Adopting a growth mindset means viewing challenges as opportunities for learning and development. Embrace the journey, celebrate successes, and learn from setbacks. A mindset shift can make all the difference in creating lasting habits.

Prioritize Self-Care:

In the hustle of daily life, self-care often takes a backseat. However, nurturing your physical, mental, and emotional well-being is paramount. Whether it’s a morning walk, meditation, or simply enjoying a cup of tea, prioritize self-care as a foundational habit.

Build a Support System:

    Change is more attainable and enjoyable when shared. Cultivate a support system of friends, family, or like-minded individuals who champion your growth. Share your intentions, celebrate achievements together, and lean on each other during challenging times.

    As we stand at the threshold of a new year, let’s approach it with mindfulness, intention, and a commitment to our well-being. By understanding our motivations, setting thoughtful intentions, and embracing gradual changes, we can forge habits that endure. Remember, the journey is as valuable as the destination. Here’s to a year of growth, resilience, and the creation of a life that aligns with your deepest aspirations. Cheers to the art of intentional living!

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    SE offers a framework to assess where a person is “stuck” in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states. It provides effective skills appropriate to a variety of healing professions including mental health, medicine, physical and occupational therapies, bodywork, addiction treatment, first response, education, and others— Excerpt taken from SETI.

    Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders resulting from multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics, together with over 45 years of successful clinical application. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma. Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat or as the end product of cumulative stress. Both types of stress can seriously impair a person’s ability to function with resilience and ease. Excerpt taken from SETI

    An Embodied approach to healing

    Trauma may result from a wide variety of stressors such as accidents, invasive medical procedures, sexual or physical assault, emotional abuse, neglect, war, natural disasters, loss, birth trauma, or the corrosive stressors of ongoing fear and conflict. SE facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound in the body, thus addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. This is approached by gently guiding clients to develop increasing tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotion.


    SE offers a framework to assess where a person is “stuck” in the fight, flight or freeze responses and provides clinical tools to resolve these fixated physiological states. It provides effective skills appropriate to a variety of healing professions including mental health, medicine, physical and occupational therapies, bodywork, addiction treatment, first response, education, and others— Excerpt taken from SETI.

    Somatic Experiencing (SE) is a body-oriented approach to the healing of trauma and other stress disorders resulting from multidisciplinary study of stress physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics, together with over 45 years of successful clinical application. The SE approach releases traumatic shock, which is key to transforming PTSD and the wounds of emotional and early developmental attachment trauma. Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat or as the end product of cumulative stress. Both types of stress can seriously impair a person’s ability to function with resilience and ease. Excerpt taken from SETI

    An Embodied approach to healing

    Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute. 

    Sensorimotor Psychotherapy (SP) is a complete treatment modality to heal trauma and attachment issues. SP welcomes the body as an integral source of information for processing past experiences relating to upsetting or traumatic events and developmental wounds. SP incorporates the physical and sensory experience, as well as thoughts and emotions, as part of the person’s complete experience of both the trauma itself and the process of healing. Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute.  


    An Embodied approach to healing

    SP seeks to restore a person’s ability to process information without being triggered by past experience. SP uses a three-phase treatment approach to gently guide the client through the therapeutic process – Safety and Stabilization, Processing, and Integration. The therapist must pay close attention to the client to ensure that they are not overwhelmed by the process while simultaneously engaging their own abilities and capacities for healing.

    It is thought that SP strengthens instinctual capacities for survival and assists clients to re-instate or develop resources which were unavailable or missing at the time the trauma or wounding occurred. Once resources are developed and in place, the traumatic event can be processed with the aid of resources. SP is a well-developed approach with decades of success in the treatment of trauma and developmental wounds. — Excerpt taken from Sensorimotor Psychotherapy Institute. 

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